January 10, 2007

Why So Sad, GMU?

gmu-on-campus.jpgEditors Note: Yesterday afternoon a 27- year old Mason student fell to his death from the third story of the Johnson Center. This post was written yesterday afternoon, before the current facts were known, and is in no way meant to be insensitive. DCist extends every condolence to the young man's family and the Mason community.

George Mason University, located in the middle of beautiful congested Fairfax, Virginia, is, apparently, one of the unhappiest college campuses in the country. We were barely reading this past Sunday's New York Times Magazine when this alarming and surprising stat, mentioned in a secondary story called "Happiness 101", caught our collective eye.

One Tuesday last fall I sat in on a positive-psychology class called the Science of Well-Being — essentially a class in how to make yourself happier — at George Mason University in Fairfax, Va. George Mason is a challenge for positive psychologists because it is one of the 15 unhappiest campuses in America, at least per The Princeton Review. Many students are married and already working and commute to school. It’s a place where you go to move your career forward, not to find yourself.

According to recent college rankings released by the Princeton Review, George Mason University has the dubious distinction of placing 15th on a list of 20 schools where the students are least happy. Hm, we bet that stat isn't making into in the admissions packet. The Princeton Review site is thin on details as to how they arrived at this conclusion, but it looks like the schools on the "Least Happy Students" list are ranked in answer to the simple question: Overall, how happy are you? The number one spot is held by the United States Merchant Marine Academy.

That last sentence, like most things in the New York Times these days, baffles us just a bit. Who knew that being married, having a job and commuting meant instant unhappiness? I'm a student at George Mason and the campus seems like a cheery enough place to me, but for the rest of you Mason students, what are you so bummed out about, anyway?

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Sad irony given that a GMU student was an apparent suicide yesterday.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/01/10/AR2007011000501.html

 

Commuting in NoVa is enough to drive anyone to tears. 'Nuff said.

 

How was UMd @ College Park not on this list? Or were they? They've been robbed of a college town. CP is one of the most depressing places I've ever been.

 

I know it has been a few years since I was there, but how about the fact that the campus is a ghost town by about 1:30pm on Friday afternoon?

 

Just guessing, but because Fairfax is void of any real personality? Just boring, brick buildings and traffic. At least that's my opinion.

 

I thought GMU was just another satellite campus of NOVA community college?

 

I don't believe that College Park being kind of run down has anything to do with whether or not UMCP students are happy or unhappy. From my experience, most UMCP students were very happy with their college experience. Also, the town of CP might be run down but the campus itself is beautiful.

 

Is it still considered a "suicide attempt" if it in fact resulted in death?

 

It totally, completely, and utterly sucks to work full time and go to school. I just graduated from a part-time graduate program while working full time and was never "happy" either. Miserable might be a better word and I know I'm not alone. I don't think my university had anything to do with my unhappiness though, so it's a little weird to pin all that on GMU.

 

Just guessing, but because Fairfax is void of any real personality? Just boring, brick buildings and traffic.

As opposed to the rich, vibrant streetscapes surrounding George Washington University? Granted, there's the rush of oxygen as you walk to Froggy Bottom Pub to get good and tight. I think I've found the real reason the GMU folks are so depressed:

Kashdan bobbed around the room or sat, legs dangling, on his desk beneath a big PowerPoint slide that said “The Scientific Pursuit of Happiness” as he took the students, a few older than he, through the various building blocks of positive psychology: optimism, gratitude, mindfulness, hope, spirituality.

The fact that these people are paying top dollar to learn how to be happy is about as grim as a three-day bout of nausea. After seeing that first slide, I'd be headed for the nearest clock tower with a rifle.

 

Any "study" published by Princeton Review would get a failing grade in an undergraduate introduction to research course. Their methods are so poor that it is a wonder anyone puts any stock in their outcomes.

Trust me, you could replicate any Princeton Review study and get exactly the opposite results.

 

Just guessing, but because Fairfax is void of any real personality? Just boring, brick buildings and traffic.

As opposed to the rich, vibrant streetscapes surrounding George Washington University? Granted, there's the rush of oxygen as you walk to Froggy Bottom Pub to get good and tight. I think I've found the real reason the GMU folks are so depressed:

Kashdan bobbed around the room or sat, legs dangling, on his desk beneath a big PowerPoint slide that said “The Scientific Pursuit of Happiness” as he took the students, a few older than he, through the various building blocks of positive psychology: optimism, gratitude, mindfulness, hope, spirituality.

The fact that these people are paying top dollar to learn how to be happy is about as grim as a three-day bout of nausea. After seeing that first slide, I'd be headed for the nearest clock tower with a rifle.

 

I don't believe that College Park being slightly run-down has anything to do with whether or not Maryland students are happy or unhappy. Myself included, most UMCP students I know were happy with their college experience. Also, while it is true that the city of CP is a bit depressing, the Maryland campus itself is beautiful.

 

We are def. not a satellite campus of NOVA. We were once a satellite campus of UVA many years ago though. But Mason isn't a depressing school its just blad and boring. Being that most students commute, there is no real since of a university or college town. You can drive past it and not even know there was a college in fairfax. Its a great looking campus one of the best Ive seen, but looks arent everything its just laking that college feel. But hey college is what you make it. Just gotta work with what you got even if it isn't much sometimes.

 

I graduated from George Mason University. It seemed to me that saying you hated GMU was cool, i.e. school spirit is for losers, and this was a belief held particularly by commuters who felt like going to school was a job. The disparity between the commuters and the kids who live on campus is pretty huge, and it can be hard to deal with when the majority is full of commuters.

That being said, GMU needs to decide what it wants to be: the school that working professionals can attend or the college campus it pretends to be. The direction seems to be more towards the latter, as I progressively saw more students who thought of GMU as a safety school put on the wait list. The school continues to build student housing, slowly closing the ratio of commuter to on campus student. Lots of working professionals count on GMU for advanced degrees and the school makes A LOT of money from them. However, the school can't do both and therein the problem lies.

 

Ahrmm. The reason we're all miserable would be Parking Services. Yep. That's pretty much it.

 

I'm a mason alum- Arlene above more or less hits it when she says that commuters kind of harsh the school spirit down a bit. I'm not sure that living on campus is essential to being happy at college, but it seems that way.

Keep in mind that at the same time that they're building new student housing, they're also replacing the parking lots with four-level garages.

 

I go to GMU and think that the school is Great. I live on campus and am from southern Va. I think people expect too much and don't enjoy the uniqueness of GMU. My career opportunities, my social network, and my overall happiness have up'd as a result of coming to Mason. Plus our B-Ball team kicked all of the other area schools' ass last year in their tourny advancement.

*Also to Monkey Boy (post 1)--the death has not yet been confirmed as a suicide so I would not announce it as such. The Post article that you link to even states that. I think that was just an unfortunate event. We'll see though.

Anyway, Go Patriots!

 

I go to GMU and think that the school is Great. I live on campus and am from southern Va. I think people expect too much and don't enjoy the uniqueness of GMU. My career opportunities, my social network, and my overall happiness have up'd as a result of coming to Mason. Plus our B-Ball team kicked all of the other area schools' ass last year in their tourney advancement.

*Also to Monkey Boy (post 1)--the death has not yet been confirmed as a suicide so I would not announce it as such. The Post article that you link to even states that. I think that was just an unfortunate event. We'll see though.

Anyway, Go Patriots!

 

fairfax sucks.

 

Overpriced/unhealthy meal...$7-10

Wasiting my time not finding anywhere that is open to eat on campus (fridays and weekends) - well say...$350+/semester

Wasting my time looking for parking- again we'll go with...$100/semester

Consistently cold showers....$500/semester

Old gross housing.....$2500/semster

Stupid new ESUDS program for using the laundry...$250/semester

Seeing that Mason has one of the highest dissatisfaction ratings in the US........PRICELESS


 

GMU needs more scuba diving classes. That would put smiles on their faces

 

umaryland kids are just happy all the time because they are drunk all the time. CLEARLY.

 

That being said, GMU needs to decide what it wants to be: the school that working professionals can attend or the college campus it pretends to be. The direction seems to be more towards the latter, as I progressively saw more students who thought of GMU as a safety school put on the wait list. The school continues to build student housing, slowly closing the ratio of commuter to on campus student. Lots of working professionals count on GMU for advanced degrees and the school makes A LOT of money from them. However, the school can't do both and therein the problem lies.


George Washington University is very good at being both a very good option for working professionals and for a thriving undergraduate population. We can't GMU try to do both well too?

 

In light of what happened to the GMU student, wouldn't it have been easier and more sensitive to avoid any post regarding this subject?

 

First and foremost, this is a tragic story. However, I also hope that this is a teachable moment.

1. Mental illness, which needs to be better researched and better treated in our society, is the likely culprit, not some alleged general malaise at the university.

2. Of all the subjective ranking guides to higher ed., the Princeton Review practices the most ridiculous and inexcusably poor methodology. A prior commenter remarked on this, but I wanted to highlight it. I sometimes wonder if failing research methods coursework is a requirement for employment at PR. It's bordering on being the National Enquirer of higher ed.

DCist editors, when reporting on a survey ranking or finding, you do your readers a disservice when you cite the results of a grossly unscientific poll or surveys without labeling it or qualifying the information. (That the NYT is also guilty of this in their article is no excuse.) Public Agenda has a nice piece on "20 Questions Journalists Should Ask About Poll Results" here: http://www.publicagenda.org/polling/polling_20q.cfm PR's polling sins relate to #4 and their dismal sampling strategy (or rather, lack thereof).

 

I am an on campus 2nd semester freshman from NJ. GMU is awesome I have never had a problem with the school at all (CUE bus, meal plan, FREE laundry service, package pick up, housing, COLD SHOWERS?????) If your not having a good time at college you must be really hard to please or just cant make a good time for yourself....get some ppl together go out see a movie ride the metro....theres a million thing to do. If your a student at GMU and dont like the school get the hell out and transfer to another school. I came all the way from jersey and love my school just like plenty of other ppl.

 

well yes. GMU sucks.

the snobby preppy rich kids who will just run right into you in the hallway, or just stop dead in the way is a bit annoying.

the kids bragging about how cool they are because they "like, got so totally trashed this weekend" gets old.

driving for a half hour for parking is a HUGE pain in the ass.

not to mention, after all the shit about the basketball team last year, they let in a bunch of new students, and did NOTHING to improve already horrid parking. other than raise the price of the parking pass.

dealing with the admin staff who know NOTHING and give you wrong answers to questions is unacceptable.

the fact that they brag about being "diverse" when they arent. a school is not diverse when 10% of the population speaks English!!!

the sorority girls who run around campus at 10am dressed like they should be at a club, complete with the 4 inch stiletos is absurd.

the glare you get if you DARE smile at someone you dont know is a bit frightening.

do i need to go on?

 

Jess - I think it's that way at a lot of colleges...

 

Jess - I think it's like that at every college...

 

Because the faculty does not care about the students, or university life, they are all just there for a paycheck. Anytime there is a chance for faculty to side against a student organization they will do so especially social orgs. THERE IS NO FOOTBALL TEAM!!!!!!!

 

The body fell three feet in front of me. He was alive for as much as a half an hour, shattered and bleeding. I don't find this post to be in poor taste, but it's rather light and unimportant relative to what one could say about both the suicide and the dubious poll.

 

"...they are all just there for a paycheck"??
Are you kidding?

 

"...they are all just there for a paycheck" ??
Are you kidding?

 

I have the rather unique experience of commuting to the campus for 2 years (45 minutes one way), then living on campus till graduation. Both experiences are vastly different. I would recommend to anyone that living on campus is the preferred option. There are many more social and educational opportunities if one stays on campus.

To the people I see here complaining about faculty, living conditions, meal plans, other students, etc... Welcome to college! This is life, get used to it. To the persistent myth that there is not enough parking on campus... well, it's just a myth. There is always a parking spot available somewhere, but the question is "how lazy are you?" There will always be the people that drive around the first couple of rows for 30 minutes looking for that perfect space, while there are many spots available if you don't mind a short walk.

 

"Ahrmm. The reason we're all miserable would be Parking Services. Yep. That's pretty much it."

I happen to work at parking services, and I'd like to suggest that the reason people are so "miserable" with Parking Services, is because they come in expecting to not have to pay for parking, or for citations that are well deserved. Sorry to say it, but welcome to Fairfax, and welcome to the real world.

And @ Jess, I'd like to break your comments down, if I can.

"well yes. GMU sucks."

This is a very typical college kid attitude.

"the snobby preppy rich kids who will just run right into you in the hallway, or just stop dead in the way is a bit annoying."

Did you go to high school? I assure you it isn't "snobby preppy rich kids" that do these kinds of things, it's simply insensitive people, which you will find anywhere. It's kind of ignorant to lump anyone who has money into the category of "snobby" and "preppy."

"the kids bragging about how cool they are because they "like, got so totally trashed this weekend" gets old."

You think this is only at GMU? Again, you will find this anywhere. It's just a common college kid mentality. However, if you truly are above that kind of talk and lifestyle, simply choose not to associate with them. No harm, no foul.

"driving for a half hour for parking is a HUGE pain in the ass."

You wouldn't have to drive for half an hour if you actually came to class early. If you're expecting to find parking the second you arrive, you're mistaken, and that pretty much goes for any school. Try arriving at least 15 min. before your class actually starts. Problem solved.

"not to mention, after all the shit about the basketball team last year, they let in a bunch of new students, and did NOTHING to improve already horrid parking. other than raise the price of the parking pass."

I'll refer to another users post for this one: "Keep in mind that at the same time that they're building new student housing, they're also replacing the parking lots with four-level garages." Give it time, they're working on it. And about the raise in parking prices... go take an economics class. It's called supply and demand.

"dealing with the admin staff who know NOTHING and give you wrong answers to questions is unacceptable."

Oh. So you've never given someone incorrect information? I'd like to suggest, just by viewing your comments, that you have. Just understand that these admins that you are speaking of are just people, and people make mistakes. If you want to get something done, you need to be persistent. Often times you will not achieve the result you wanted the first time you attempt to accomplish it. Again, persistence is key.

"the fact that they brag about being "diverse" when they arent. a school is not diverse when 10% of the population speaks English!!!"

Look, go move to New England if you don't like the diversity. The fact that so many students are learning English as a second language is WHY they call it diverse. How many languages do you know? Just cut them some slack. They're learning, which is what you do in college.

"the sorority girls who run around campus at 10am dressed like they should be at a club, complete with the 4 inch stiletos is absurd."

Yes, some people choose to dress differently than you do. Deal with it. Yes, I agree that it's ridiculous, but again, you will find this kind of "fashion" at any campus in the country. They're just trying to get attention. If you don't like it, don't give them any attention. Simple.

the glare you get if you DARE smile at someone you dont know is a bit frightening.

I'm kind of confused what you are talking about here. Maybe you are frightening the people with your smiling? Dunno, but most people I smile at smile back, but then again, do you go around smiling at complete strangers? Cause that's kind of weird.

do i need to go on?

Yes, please do. I appologise if I have offended you with my comments, I just feel that you are blaming flaws of human-kind on the place you happen to encounter these problems, which is extremely unfair to GMU.

 

Doug,
When did I say that I am not having a good time at GMU? No, dear, that is not it at all! I think that GMU is not concerned with delivering good customer service. Best not to make assumptions.

But, as for the cold showers and bad food, I don't know why you would question my experience and satisfaction with the food, it is, after all, MY experience and opinion. And how would you know what my situation is with cold showers? FYI, EVERY PERSON on my hall has had to deal with them at some point in the past semester, I myself have had to deal with them at least TEN time, that is UNACCEPTABLE! I suggest you get over yourself and post your opinion if that is what you wanna do, but stop targeting other people's posts, it is quite rude when the topic is another person's opinion, I am not going to tell you that your opinion is wrong. It is yours not mine and nobody is forcing me to share it.

 

Good critique RC. I love Mason and can't stand when people tear down the school. It's actually really great living on campus and also living near the district. It's a young University so of course it is different then your V.Tech or USC, but I like it. I think my school has a lot of charm.

 

i graduate in '03 after having soooo much fun i extended my stay to 5 years. YOU'VE GOT TO LIVE ON CAMPUS to fully appreciate ANY college. the fact that many students commute may disproportionately affect that princeton survey as maybe the respondants were primarily commuters who are too boring and lame to throw down the money to really experience college life.

i enjoyed every second of my 5 years at GMU and i still work nearby because i love the area so much. i live in arlington and work near campus. the best of both worlds. as far as traffic goes, you just have to not be stupid about it. drive against the traffic and you're fine. or just accept the fact that it exists, and go to the gym after work and then when you're done, drive home in peace.

anyone who spent more than a year living on campus and STILL had nothing positive to say is quite simply A COMPLETE LOSER and would have given the same disparaging reviews of ANY school they attended.

 

I am an out-of-state student attending GMU, definitely by choice. I was accepted to many other schools and chose to attend Mason due to its diversity. I do not understand how anyone could say that Mason is not diverse. I can walk through campus and not hear English being spoken. I can walk in my dormroom and not hear it. My roommates are from across the globe. In my room alone 5 languages are spoken, including English. But that isn't the only reason I chose to attend. The connections made here in the DC area are very beneficial.

Mason started many programs. We started the C-Span television network many years ago. We have the best low-light telescope on the East coast. We have grown quicker than any other school in VA. We have more books than many of the DC area schools. We have several Nobel-prize wining professors.

I see no room to complain. I believe that it's by what you look at. If you look at everything negatively, then you'll see a bad school. If you look at all that Mason has to offer, then you will see a growing, diverse, enriching university.

 

I was definitely unhappy at Mason. I was there half a semester before I had to leave, came back a second semester, and realized I just couldn't stay there. I transferred to George Washington. The only good thing I found about Mason was the diversity of the students.

 

GMU is the 15th most miserable campus in the United States because it's in Northern Virginia. As long as you live on campus and leave Virginia as soon as you graduate, you should enjoy college.

What Jess said was overall right, but GMU is good as long as you live on campus. Slogg was exactly right, but RC appears to be a typical left-of-center northern virginia poor-mannered elitist dumbass. I'm not suprised that RC works at parking.

 

I have had amazing experiences at George Mason I'm not certain I would have had elsewhere.

I participated in Mason Topics as a Freshman which helped me get to know everyone on my hall. I was given the opportunity to be apart of a Division I sports team. I was suprisingly able to start a student club without much difficulty. Finally, I was able to switch my major to something I was truly passionate about with the encouragement of my professor.

The education I have received has empowered me. I feel able to make a difference and evoke change; I credit this to my professors' contagious and tiresome "fire in the belly".
I think college is a rare opportunity to discover what you are passionate about so you can pursue it.
If you are not able to do that where you are for any reason, find an alternative instructor, class, major or University.

The push for vocationalism is everywhere. Everyone will ask you what you're going to DO with the rest of your life. Answering that question for yourself is not easy. Don't cave by settling for something you don't feel passionate about to "get a job". Don't see YOUR time in college as a piece of paper you get when you graduate. Take advantage of this opportunity to find your passion and never settle for anything less.

 

"not to mention, after all the shit about the basketball team last year, they let in a bunch of new students, and did NOTHING to improve already horrid parking. other than raise the price of the parking pass."

GMU actually added parking across 123 at the field house AND a added shuttle bus to tote students back and forth (this comes every five to ten minutes) - the parking pass for parking at the field house is $80 FOR THE ENTIRE YEAR! so those who still complain about parking are just to lazy to look for other options (although, i will admit it is a grossly unadvertised option for fellow commuters) or are too lazy to walk an extra 50 feet - and fyi - i've NEVER had to 'look' for a parking spot at the field house, so i SAVE time ands stress by parking immediately at the field house and taking a shuttle bus that drops me off right in front of the JC/science and tech/etc.

 

I live only 10 minutes away from campus - that, on a good day. It usually takes over half an hour to get from my home to GMU, so as far as I'm concerned, Braddock Road sucks.

The only other complain I have is that nigthlife in Fairfax is horrible. Sure, it's easy to find a movie or two, or you could probably go ice skating. But everything is so darn expensive. And if you want to find a club or something, good luck with that(I think I've only seen 2 places withing 30 minutes from campus).

However, it's also really easy to make money in that area. There are lot's of high paying jobs in Fairfax.

I don't really mind having to walk 7 minutes from my car to the classroom(and most of it uphill). In fact, I think that's what's keeping me healthy since all I eat is junk food, and rarely do any exercise.

Education is excellent, and resources are great.

Overall, I consider myself happy, however, I have no experience in other schools, so I can't really throw a comparison.

A word of caution: If you'r planning to meet a nice girl, DO NOT choose any Engineering major.

 

I am currently a full-time student at Mason, and would have to say am rather satisfied with my education. I've read ppl complaining about $$ and price issues @ Mason--honestly it is the best deal you'll get for education, especially in this area. George Washington Univ- overpriced low quality education. Georgetown-again overpriced for a name brand. UMD is good, but then again if your a VA resident [like I am] it gets overpriced. Ppl complain about it being a commuter school...~4,000 ppl live on campus which is close to the student population at Princeton U has [I think we all would agree Princeton is a 'good' school] so even w/o commuters you have enough people to make up a university.

 

ok, RC... lets go.

And @ Jess, I'd like to break your comments down, if I can.

"well yes. GMU sucks."

This is a very typical college kid attitude.

yeah... no. GMU sucks. and actaully im older than the "typical" college kid, maybe thats the problem, im not still realllllly stupid. im sure a great many colleges suck. however i am stuck at gmu. and yes, stuck, because i refuse to go into even more debt.


"the snobby preppy rich kids who will just run right into you in the hallway, or just stop dead in the way is a bit annoying."

Did you go to high school? I assure you it isn't "snobby preppy rich kids" that do these kinds of things, it's simply insensitive people, which you will find anywhere. It's kind of ignorant to lump anyone who has money into the category of "snobby" and "preppy."

yes i went to high school. i say "snobby preppy rich kids" because 95% of the GMU population is just that. there really is a lack of courtesy on the campus

"the kids bragging about how cool they are because they "like, got so totally trashed this weekend" gets old."

You think this is only at GMU? Again, you will find this anywhere. It's just a common college kid mentality. However, if you truly are above that kind of talk and lifestyle, simply choose not to associate with them. No harm, no foul.

yeah, unfortunatly its frowned upon to beat these people in class and im not cool enough to be able to walk around with an ipod to block it out

"driving for a half hour for parking is a HUGE pain in the ass."

You wouldn't have to drive for half an hour if you actually came to class early. If you're expecting to find parking the second you arrive, you're mistaken, and that pretty much goes for any school. Try arriving at least 15 min. before your class actually starts. Problem solved.

right... doesnt matter, since all the classes end and start at the same time, ive tried geting there 30 min before class... and if i do find a spot, its way the fuck out in left field. yes they are building parking garages but thats $$

"not to mention, after all the shit about the basketball team last year, they let in a bunch of new students, and did NOTHING to improve already horrid parking. other than raise the price of the parking pass."

I'll refer to another users post for this one: "Keep in mind that at the same time that they're building new student housing, they're also replacing the parking lots with four-level garages." Give it time, they're working on it. And about the raise in parking prices... go take an economics class. It's called supply and demand.

and refer to my post about letting to many people in and the cost of the parking garages

"dealing with the admin staff who know NOTHING and give you wrong answers to questions is unacceptable."

Oh. So you've never given someone incorrect information? I'd like to suggest, just by viewing your comments, that you have. Just understand that these admins that you are speaking of are just people, and people make mistakes. If you want to get something done, you need to be persistent. Often times you will not achieve the result you wanted the first time you attempt to accomplish it. Again, persistence is key.

right and when i fuck up, i get in trouble for it. when they fuck up they blame me and dont bother to apoligize. i have to spend extra time in this hell hole because of people whos JOB it is to know certain things gave me wrong info and i dont even get a sorry... and i end up more in debt. they dont give a flying fuck about the students, its all about the $

"the fact that they brag about being "diverse" when they arent. a school is not diverse when 10% of the population speaks English!!!"

Look, go move to New England if you don't like the diversity. The fact that so many students are learning English as a second language is WHY they call it diverse. How many languages do you know? Just cut them some slack. They're learning, which is what you do in college.

learning english? are you kidding? some of them refuse to speak it. and just the thought of giving illegals instate tuition like MD wants to do makes me sick.

"the sorority girls who run around campus at 10am dressed like they should be at a club, complete with the 4 inch stiletos is absurd."

Yes, some people choose to dress differently than you do. Deal with it. Yes, I agree that it's ridiculous, but again, you will find this kind of "fashion" at any campus in the country. They're just trying to get attention. If you don't like it, don't give them any attention. Simple.

but wait... i thought we were there to LEARN?


the glare you get if you DARE smile at someone you dont know is a bit frightening.

I'm kind of confused what you are talking about here. Maybe you are frightening the people with your smiling? Dunno, but most people I smile at smile back, but then again, do you go around smiling at complete strangers? Cause that's kind of weird.

on the rare occasion someone doesnt drop a door on me i do smile... or when i hold the door open for them. youd think they rather i dropped it on them...

do i need to go on?

Yes, please do. I appologise if I have offended you with my comments, I just feel that you are blaming flaws of human-kind on the place you happen to encounter these problems, which is extremely unfair to GMU.

offended no... scared me with your lack of knowledge about gmu yes. i have a feeling you might work for these people. which is something im considering, because if youve ever needed something done by them, you are well aware, most of the people who work there dont to a damn thing.

 

ok, RC... lets go.

And @ Jess, I'd like to break your comments down, if I can.

"well yes. GMU sucks."

This is a very typical college kid attitude.

yeah... no. GMU sucks. and actaully im older than the "typical" college kid, maybe thats the problem, im not still realllllly stupid. im sure a great many colleges suck. however i am stuck at gmu. and yes, stuck, because i refuse to go into even more debt.


"the snobby preppy rich kids who will just run right into you in the hallway, or just stop dead in the way is a bit annoying."

Did you go to high school? I assure you it isn't "snobby preppy rich kids" that do these kinds of things, it's simply insensitive people, which you will find anywhere. It's kind of ignorant to lump anyone who has money into the category of "snobby" and "preppy."

yes i went to high school. i say "snobby preppy rich kids" because 95% of the GMU population is just that. there really is a lack of courtesy on the campus

"the kids bragging about how cool they are because they "like, got so totally trashed this weekend" gets old."

You think this is only at GMU? Again, you will find this anywhere. It's just a common college kid mentality. However, if you truly are above that kind of talk and lifestyle, simply choose not to associate with them. No harm, no foul.

yeah, unfortunatly its frowned upon to beat these people in class and im not cool enough to be able to walk around with an ipod to block it out

"driving for a half hour for parking is a HUGE pain in the ass."

You wouldn't have to drive for half an hour if you actually came to class early. If you're expecting to find parking the second you arrive, you're mistaken, and that pretty much goes for any school. Try arriving at least 15 min. before your class actually starts. Problem solved.

right... doesnt matter, since all the classes end and start at the same time, ive tried geting there 30 min before class... and if i do find a spot, its way the fuck out in left field. yes they are building parking garages but thats $$

"not to mention, after all the shit about the basketball team last year, they let in a bunch of new students, and did NOTHING to improve already horrid parking. other than raise the price of the parking pass."

I'll refer to another users post for this one: "Keep in mind that at the same time that they're building new student housing, they're also replacing the parking lots with four-level garages." Give it time, they're working on it. And about the raise in parking prices... go take an economics class. It's called supply and demand.

and refer to my post about letting to many people in and the cost of the parking garages

"dealing with the admin staff who know NOTHING and give you wrong answers to questions is unacceptable."

Oh. So you've never given someone incorrect information? I'd like to suggest, just by viewing your comments, that you have. Just understand that these admins that you are speaking of are just people, and people make mistakes. If you want to get something done, you need to be persistent. Often times you will not achieve the result you wanted the first time you attempt to accomplish it. Again, persistence is key.

right and when i fuck up, i get in trouble for it. when they fuck up they blame me and dont bother to apoligize. i have to spend extra time in this hell hole because of people whos JOB it is to know certain things gave me wrong info and i dont even get a sorry... and i end up more in debt. they dont give a flying fuck about the students, its all about the $

"the fact that they brag about being "diverse" when they arent. a school is not diverse when 10% of the population speaks English!!!"

Look, go move to New England if you don't like the diversity. The fact that so many students are learning English as a second language is WHY they call it diverse. How many languages do you know? Just cut them some slack. They're learning, which is what you do in college.

learning english? are you kidding? some of them refuse to speak it. and just the thought of giving illegals instate tuition like MD wants to do makes me sick.

"the sorority girls who run around campus at 10am dressed like they should be at a club, complete with the 4 inch stiletos is absurd."

Yes, some people choose to dress differently than you do. Deal with it. Yes, I agree that it's ridiculous, but again, you will find this kind of "fashion" at any campus in the country. They're just trying to get attention. If you don't like it, don't give them any attention. Simple.

but wait... i thought we were there to LEARN?


the glare you get if you DARE smile at someone you dont know is a bit frightening.

I'm kind of confused what you are talking about here. Maybe you are frightening the people with your smiling? Dunno, but most people I smile at smile back, but then again, do you go around smiling at complete strangers? Cause that's kind of weird.

on the rare occasion someone doesnt drop a door on me i do smile... or when i hold the door open for them. youd think they rather i dropped it on them...

do i need to go on?

Yes, please do. I appologise if I have offended you with my comments, I just feel that you are blaming flaws of human-kind on the place you happen to encounter these problems, which is extremely unfair to GMU.

offended no... scared me with your lack of knowledge about gmu yes. i have a feeling you might work for these people. which is something im considering, because if youve ever needed something done by them, you are well aware, most of the people who work there dont to a damn thing.

 

I'm graduating soon, and leaving Mason wishing that I had never gone there. Yes, I've met many wonderful people and had a few good professors as well as many great experiences. However, I've had so many awful experiences there aswell. As a victim of campus rape, I feel that Mason has been overwhelmingly shitty to me. The campus police are terrible when it comes to dealing with real crime on campus. I genuinely feel that they and the university are more concerned with keeping such things quiet than in protecting students and preventing such things from happening to other students.

I've met so many other young women like myself at Mason. I feel deeply sad for those that had been convinced by the university to sign bargaining agreements with their rapists. It's a schools responsibility to it's students to (at the very least)remove these individuals from campus housing. I think this kind of treatment towards students is completely unexceptable and yes, it is more uniquely a problem to GMU then one might realize.

 

The best thing about George Mason University was the track and field teams. Once the new AD came in (O'Connor) he pushed the most prestigious programs in the school out of the way to put all energy toward basketball. Coach John Cook was and is a living legend who deserved better. What comes around goes around. O'Connor has his head up his a@# and karma is a bitch. What comes around goes around, and the AD will definitely get his one day. Who gives a shit GMU went to the final 4 once. Duke has been about 20 times. Mason has spent MILLIONS in advertising to this day pimping the fact that they went to the final four AND LOST. Pathetic! You think Duke would brag about LOSING in the final 4? Heck no. The Mason track teams won actual NCAA crowns and produched quality people, including many Olympic finalists. The b-ball team has produced knife-wielders, dropouts, pro B-leaguers and a whole campus with their head up their anus b /c of one fluke year making it to the final 4. Get over it GMU. No one cares about college basketball anymore. If you're a baller and are any good at all, you go straight to the pros or spend one year in college, making NCAA basketball irrelevant. Getting drafted into the Phillipine leauge is not a headline! GMason has it's priorities in the wrong place. Sports on campus should help develop student's minds and BODIES. Firing the best track coach in the country, maybe the world, was a major jackass move, O'Connor.

 
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