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December 9, 2008

A First: We Have Sympathy for Tow Truck Operators

We know "sympathy" and "tow truck" are rarely used in the same sentence, but bear with us. The AP is reporting that two two truck employees in Frederickburg are being charged with felonies for towing a car with a two-year-old girl in it. But how did a toddler end up alone in a towed vehicle? Apparently her mother double-parked the car, left her daughter in it with the doors unlocked, and ran in to talk to some friends; the tow truck employees say they didn't see the child. Shouldn't the mother be the one facing charges?

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who leaves their two year old in an unlocked car with the motor running? There are so many ways that could go terribly wrong...

 

yes.

 

So the woman is committing at least 3 crimes (of varying seriousness): Double parking, leaving a running car unattended, and leaving a child unattended... but the tow truck operators -- who were just doing their jobs and reported it as soon as they knew (presumably) -- are the ones who are at fault here?

Someone really didn't think this one through.

 

Bush doesn't like bl... Parents don't like their children.

 

Every parent knows you're supposed to lock the kids in the trunk before you doublepark so you can talk to your friends. It's right there on Page 23 of the "How to Be a Stupid Muthaf**er" manual, complete with diagrams.

 

absofuckinglutely she should be the one facing charges. those guys were framed!

 

my, albeit rough, analogy:

mother doesn't take care of child -> tow truck drivers are at fault. (yes, they could've/should've checked, but the kid should not have been left in the car)

parent(s) don't raise children -> school system(s) are at fault. (yes, schools are meant to educate our children, but the kids should be prepared for said education at home)

unfortunately, this logic seems to be prevalent. you know, it's your fault, not mine.

 

The kid was a Christmas gift.

 

The tow truck guys were just doing their job. The mom is at fault and should be brought up on child endangerment charges. I know that it is a complete pain to take a kid out of their safety seat only to put them back in it a few minutes later especially if they are asleep or in an anti-car seat mood, but its what a responsible parent does or we just call on our cell phone and have someone from the house run out to our car.

 

My question: who tows a running car? Wouldn't they have to at least turn it off, thus going inside and finding the child?

 

No, this is not a case of either/or. It's entirely possible that BOTH the woman and the tow truck drivers should be charged.

The tow truck drivers were not "just doing their job". Their job does not include towing a car with live humans in it. In fact, they knew they had done something illegal when they discovered the child in the car later. They called the police to report it.

 

It's a crime for a mother to leave her child unattended, so yes, she should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. doesn't she know she's a woman?! What was she thinking, not spending her every breath and devoting her every action to her child? Could you imagine what the world would be like if all of a sudden all mothers started to leave their children unattended for short periods of time?! CHAOS! Father's have to work of course, and can't be bothered with womanly pursuits like child rearing--no, this is the bad mother's fault that the tow truck operators towed a car away without checking to see if there were passengers first. Of course it's the woman's fault, she's a woman!

 

while the mother is probably in the wrong here, it doesn't excuse the tow truck drivers in any way... I mean, the car was *running*... that should at least raise some sort of flag right there... no sympathy for 'em here...

 

This would never happen here in Logan Circle. No double-parked car has ever been towed within a four-block radius of any church in this hood.

 

The AP story, as usual, lacks details. There is a better story here:

http://www.fredericksburg.com/News/Web/2008/122008/1208tow

And upon learning those details (especially the time of day.. I was assuming this had to have happened at night), it does appear both parties acted incorrectly. If there are going to be charges, all parties should be charged.

 

She's lucky some sociopath didn't take off with her child. But then I was busy on Saturday.

 

This is Fredericksburg for you. Why go for adoption when you can just get your child towed away? Cut out the middleman!

 

This happened during daylight hours?!?!?!? How does one drive a tow truck with their head so far up their ass that they can't see a kid in the car? Somebody should call Cirque du Soleil. These are some talented, contortionist-type truck drivers.

 

It seems like in this wonderful developed nation, the land of the free, apple pie, and WB shows, a woman in a small town (Fredericksburg, small town, haha) should be able to leave her sleeping kid in the car for a few minutes while she chats with friends without being called a criminal, no? Back in the day our parents used to just let us sit on the hood of their 32' coupe and eat rock candy...

Meanwhile, the evil tow truck drivers, hoevering around the housing complex like vultures taking cars as soon as people step out of them. Bastards looking for a buck and ruining the American way. Guantanamo for them I say.

Meanwhile I don't even leave my dogs in the car, with locked doors, when I have to jump out for a minute to get carry out. Because this country is dangerous and all.

 

Tow truck drivers are all assholes. Let them burn.

 

thanks edthered. that comment made my day!

 

1. That's asking to get your car stolen.
2. That's asking to lose your kid.

I'd say it was intentional.

 

They didn't see the kid because they were in such a hurry to grab the car and get out of there before the owner came out, who they new would probably be out in a minute, but they wanted their money. I used to watch them do that from my office window, all day they would just wait for people to step out of the car and grab it like hate-ninjas.

 

People are so obsessed with safety. Back in the day, parents would think nothing of leaving babies in carriages outside stores while they went shopping. Now, if you don't have your kid smothered in bubble wrap like the Michelin Man, they'll arrest you for child endangerment. So what if she locked the kid in a running car? It's not like the kid was going to drive away or anthing. Just another reason to buy a car with a manual transmission. That, and thieves nowdays don't know how to drive a stick.

Since this woman clearly has no parenting skills, it's up to the community to pull together and tie her and the towtruck diver together with piano wire, throw them in the trunk, and set the vehicle on fire. If this were to happen in DC, the police would rule it a suicide. As it is, the Frederickburg cops will just add it to the Bill Clinton body count.

 

Last time I was towed, every bit of loose change in my console 'disappeared'.

These tow truck drivers are at the very least negligent in their duty to scour the car for anything of any valuable to steal.

 

jtmeyer: It would be equally as wrong for a man to do this. I am a feminist but also realistic and do not give a pass on stupid behavior because it was committed by a woman. Bad parenting is bad parenting regardless of the sex of the adult involved. It is fairly common knowledge that you do not leave your small child out of your line of vision while in an illegally double-parked car with the engine running regardless of the time of day. There are lots of times my husband and I forgo stopping off somewhere because we have kids in tow and couldn't leave them unattended.

 

@jtmeyer

You're being sarcastic, right? I don't think anyone pulled the "she's a dumb woman" argument here. You're nuts.

 

The argument that the tow truck driver is guilty of a *felony* is ridiculous. They goofed by not thoroughly inspecting the car, but that hardly rises to the level of a felony...

pretty sad and typical of our culture, though, to blame anyone except the irresponsible parent.

 

I'm always shocked when I see someone park their car at the curb and leave it running while they go inside a store or some place.

Last night as I was leaving the bank, a woman pulled up and went in to use the ATM, all the while leaving her car running outside.

For a split second I thought about stealing it just to teach her a lesson.

I would say the mother is 75% at fault, and the drivers 25%.

 

Actually, I usually am sympathetic to car towers. Let's see: person leaves car parked in a way that blocks traffic vs. guy just doing his job. Hmm, I'm going to go with the tower on that one. I understand there have been problems with corrupt towers in DC, but in most cases (although not all) the person whose car got towed was breaking the law. I'm more sympathetic for people towed because of middle-of-the-night emergency parking restrictions, but typically those people only have their car moved, not impounded.

It's not a lot different than people who complain that speed cameras are a form of taxation. So what if they are? You still broke the law. Why should we allow people to speed or block traffic simply because we're afraid of giving those people a bad day?

Towers are just a little below meter maids in my book in terms of people that get unfair sh*t for just doing their jobs, jobs that result in a better outcome for the rest of us at the expense of the unconscientious or self-centered.

 

Monkey: As a tot I managed to disengage the parking brake while sitting alone in my dad's manual transmission truck, sending me rolling down the hill. Luckily, my parents were nearby and were able to stop the truck. Very dramatic though!

 

Admit it, econosize. That wild ride was the best time of your life. Everything since has been lukewarm consommé at a spinsterish tea party.

Pretty bad when you peak as a tot.

 

econosize, why weren't you in a car seat? this child was.

i was wrongfully towed this past summer. twice. in one week. (and really, wrongfully towed. so blatant that i actually got my money back from the towing company --- after 3 months, of course.) If they're opening up traffic, that's good and i support it. but says in the article that this happened in a complex, i doubt there was much traffic going through there. i kind of doubt that she was causing any real trouble at all.

maybe i'm just a simple ol' hayseed from the midwest (real america, thank you), but it doesn't seem that outrageous to leave a child in a car seat in a car for five minutes. the accusations of "bad mother" are ridic.

JUST KIDDING. she's a witch! burn her!

 

RE: people setting themselves up by leaving things unlocked, idling, or letting their kids ride on the roof of the car.

When most people go to really safe places (i.e. small towns, Nordic countries, Canada, the Congo) and come back saying "wow, the people there are so great, everyone just leaves their doors unlocked, leaves their car running when they drop movies off, it was so nice." Yet if we see that in our part of the world, we beat the windshield in with clubs and set the people on fire before the criminals can get to them- to prove the point. Don't you know you're in hell? No, well let me remind you.

As I say in my humble community, you can't trust your neighbors- because I will make sure of it!

 

It's the mother's fault for not having a "Baby on Board" sticker.

That's what those are for, right?

 

jtmeyer, Are you calling out my mom for not having me in a car seat now? Anyway, I was 5 or 6, not 2. Maybe I should have said youngin' instead of tot. I actually have sort of a fuzzy memory of the incident.

And Monkey, I think you're right. Ever since I've been afraid to try anything new. No wonder I'm a wallflower! Thanks for throwing the lukewarm consomme in my face.

 

"...and ran in to talk to some friends..."

Why? Can't we assume she was talking to them on her cell phone while driving around Frederickburg?

I agree with others who don't fault the tow truck operators; they don't want to get into it with drivers. But I don't like tow truck operators in general.

 

econosize - You know those "fuzzy memories" of vehicular peril are usually an indication of repressed childhood molestation. The same thing happened to me. I was driving along rocking out to The Who's "Tommy" when I suddenly realized I had been molested by my Uncle Ernie, played by Keith Moon. Thousands of dollars of therapy and medication later, I am now an upstanding pillar of the community and deacon in my church where I can molest children and pets with impugnity. Still, I regret the loss of my pinball playing abilities. It's just not the same playing DigDug.

Also, I highly recommend having JOHN G RAPED AND MURDERED YOUR WIFE tatooed on your chest. It's quite a conversation piece and icebreaker at naughty parties.

 

Yes, the mother should get in trouble. However, speaking as someone who lived in Fredericksburg for 4 years and had my car towed numerous times by Patroit Towing, the truck drivers deserve it too. I've seen Patriot Towing in action; they don't even get out of their truck to tow a car. They have some sort of system where an attachment to their truck is lowered, slid under the car, and away they go. My husband and I saw them towing someone once from a grocery store lot and timed them, it took them 35 seconds. They towed my car once when I ran into my townhouse (in a small community of townhomes, not on a busy road) with a bag of groceries, when I came back for the second bag, my car was gone with my purse in it. The drivers tend to be a combative sort as well, they always travel with loaded weapons. This company and its drivers should have to take some responsibility.

 

You should not have sympathy for these tow truck drivers. The companies they hire to monitor these apartment complex lots are usually terrible. We had an incident where the tow truck driver was attempting to tow a car that was legally parked, the owner came out to talk to him (or maybe yell at him), and the driver sprayed him with mace. There was a big fight. They had to call the police. Keep in mind, this is private property, not a city street, in a semi-gated community. So really, wtf.

Also, in this case, the article said the woman was double-parked next to her mother's car. Since she went in to talk to her mother, obviously her mother would not call the tow company on her. She said she was gone for 5 minutes. Should have used her cell phone, but really, the towing company was obviously just preying on the oblivious.

 
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