Faith Leaders Discuss Outreach On D.C. Gay Marriage

2009_0514_lgbtflag2.jpg Groups including Bilerico D.C., The Gay and Lesbian Activists Alliance, The Gertrude Stein Democratic Club and The Log Cabin Republicans of Metro D.C. sponsored a community forum on gay marriage and the faith community Wednesday night at All Souls Church in Adams Morgan. The panel featured Episcopal priest Rev. Monique Ellison, D.C. For Marriage Chair Michael Crawford and ACLU attorney Sharon McGowan.

The forum addressed engaging churches that support gay marriage as well as people of faith in the African-American community in preparation for a full marriage bill, expected to be taken up by the D.C. Council this year.

Opposition to such a bill is likely to be well-funded, and to come from national religious sources. However, local opponents are already beginning to emerge, like Bishop Harry Jackson, pastor of Maryland’s Hope Christian Church, who Crawford (who is black) called “the black face of the white right.”

“People of faith have to speak up,” said Rev. Ellison. “The language of faith is being co-opted to exclude a whole class of people. And as a lesbian person of faith who is African-American, I know that there is no need for a ‘civil war.’” The "civil war" reference was of course an allusion to Ward 8 D.C. Council member Marion Barry's recent comments on the subject.

Rev. Ellison responded to several questions about how to engage religious people who may want to support gay friends and relatives, but who “are genuinely troubled” by their church’s teachings on homosexuality and marriage.

“We need to listen to what exactly those concerns are,” she said. “We need to let them ask questions and be courageous enough to be vulnerable.” She pointed out that some fears, like the idea that churches would be forced to perform same-sex weddings against their beliefs, are based in distortions. “Churches are not forced to perform weddings of people who have been divorced, for example,” she said.

Crawford reiterated D.C. For Marriage’s strategy to engage more communities in Ward 8, which will include a door-to-door campaign, house parties where neighbors can discuss the issue and direct outreach to churches in the ward.

“We need to explain why marriage is an issue for African-Americans. Black LGBT families are more likely to have kids in their households, for example. These are kitchen-table issues for a lot of families.”

“But they aren’t at this meeting,” a member of the audience pointed out.

The panel also discussed the stigma of being out in the African-American community, a hurdle to making inroads into some black churches and neighborhoods.

“In my experience, black congregations are full of LGBT members, but they are afraid to come out,” said Rev. Ellison, noting that doing so carries a risk. “So those of us who are able to be out need to really be out. And we can be supportive to others in the beginning stages of coming out. We can avoid smiling and nodding when hate speech is going on.”

Crawford said that D.C.’s large African-American community offers an opportunity to do meaningful, targeted outreach that can be replicated in other states facing marriage battles.

“We don’t have a silver bullet,” he said. “But we can see what works and what doesn’t, test messages and messengers.”

In closing, All Souls Senior Minister Rob Hardies - who recently attended a forum of pastors from area churches at Howard University School of Divinity in support of same-sex marriage - made a pitch for solidarity among the faith community and building allies across issues.

“When I called on straight, black Baptist clergy to come to the Howard Divinity School forum, I could reach out because of our common work on affordable housing and wage equality,” he said. “Solidarity isn’t just a political strategy, it’s a spiritual practice.”

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i sure hope that we can really get through this without the kind of crap that i'm sure is going to be thrown about.

This is where we cue monkey and a big ol'buttload o'crap. Punny!

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