Photo by christaki Just to add some more fuel my “most giant, expensive New Year’s Eve parties tend to really blow” fire, another reader shares a message sent to attendees of the “20s & 30s Going Out Group” NYE party that took place at the Harman Center for the Arts. About 600 people paid between $70-$99 to attend this open-bar, black tie optional event, which got shut down early after a couple 911 calls,…