MONDAY >> They put it pretty well themselves, and since it’s all about them anyway, we’re just going to repeat what the Black Cat had to say about their anniversary party tonight: “After 14 years of pouring you guys drinks, then picking up the glasses, working the doors, and sweeping the floors, we’ve decided that it’s time to dedicate a night to ourselves. Black Cat staff bands, staff DJs, and staffers will be hanging out…

From DCist contributor Catherine Andrews: What do you have going this weekend? Here’s what caught our eye. FRIDAY: The director’s cut of Donnie Darko is opening at Visions Cinema tonight. Check out yesterday’s Live Online chat with director Richard Kelly. Neccessary reading: Salon’s “Everything you were afraid to ask about Donnie Darko” Hurrah for free stuff! 9:30 Club is having a free concert, featuring Taking Back Sunday, The Honorary Title and Stars Hide Fire. 21+….